A spoon swims in the soup. But it still does not have the capacity to taste the soup. Only a human being can do that.
Often our closest people cannot understand us. They live with us, but still can't understand. They are like the spoon. A spoon without the intelligence to understand the flavour and taste of the soup.
When this happens, don't worry. Because the soup will find its understanding in the right human being, if not the closest one. Be the soup of those who enjoy your flavour.
A spoon does not know the taste of the soup!