Often we are gripped by a deep sense of fear, and insecurity. We are in a relationship. We have become obsessed. We are not willing to let go. Fear has gripped us. The fear of losing the relationship. We feel we have lost control.
When attached, you lose control. When detached, you can handle loss. Attachment and fear go hand in hand. Attachment leads to fear. You can't lose your attachment, so the fear. You lose control of yourself when you fear.
When you can give up everything, you are fully liberated. There is nothing to hold on to. You are a free bird. You fly high in the sky, without any fear or distraction. When you look below you see the sight of this world, with its worries, and poverty. You feel blessed. Because you are a bird who can fly with freedom, without fear. Be a bird. Don't lose control.