To judge is normal. As we meet people everyday we continuously are making some sort of assessment. Sometimes these are positive, at other times negative. When we feel positive about others, maybe it’s a good idea to convey it. After all, only through our expression of affection does human bonding increase. However, sometimes we have a negative view of others. We don’t view their intentions, actions, or values with an upbeat prism. So, sometimes we tell them straight on the face the negativity we are experiencing. This can throw the relationship out of gear. Maybe, the other person is under some stress & hence his worst qualities are coming out. When we are direct, & upfront & don’t give the benefit of doubt to the other person, we run the risk of being intolerant, & unforgiving & putting many of our relationships on the line. After all, isn’t “discretion the better part of valour” ?
Often we judge people, but it may not be necessary to reveal our judgement !