We love people who understand us. If there was a commodity which people could buy in the market place, then understanding would be the most expensive commodity. So often when our intentions are noble, people still misunderstand us. It's so frustrating. Why can't people just understand our point of view ?
The wrong people will not understand you. Because they don't have the compassion needed. They will get too over-bearing, too instructive. They will rob you of your space. You will feel breathless. Short of breath.
The right people are the ones you need to surround yourself with. They boost your confidence, they encourage you, they help you, they put a smile on your face. The right people don't order you, because they don't have expectations from you. They feel happy to be part of your life, and respect your freedom and privacy. The right people help you breathe easier.