A guide can guide you. A teacher can teach you. A parent can show you the way. A friend can give you advice. A mentor can mentor you. A professor can give knowledge to you. These people merely show you the way. They can’t do more. You need to walk the path by yourself.
In life, we often expect others to do everything for us. In reality, this can’t happen. We are all individuals & we need to fend for ourselves. We need to help our ownselves to lay the foundation of our lives.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink !